db: Use science to get her into bed.
Scott Adams finds that there actually is free will on The Dilbert Blog. It is called ‘sugar’.
This makes me wonder if there is an optimal food strategy for seduction. Apparently bringing a woman chocolate will only increase her glucose levels and with that her ability to resist you. In fact, a guy should want his woman to be good and hungry, preferably on a diet. It turns out that resisting one sort of temptation makes it harder to resist a different sort at the same time.
How to intensify your strategy? Booze.
If that is not enough, I just did a Google search to confirm that alcohol lowers your glucose levels. That fits the theory. Everyone knows they have less will power after a few drinks.
Check Scott’s Blog for references to the articles on blood sugar and thinking, and on alcohol and blood glucose levels.
There are songs about this tactic, such as “The girls all get prettier at closing time.” Which goes to show, that guys also react to elevated alcohol and lowered blood sugar.
“The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” With lots of sugary desert, to spike those blood glucose levels so you can make him belief he has arrived at Nirvana – and after the resulting blood sugar level crash, he won’t recall what he agreed to. Not that I would recommend the salesman’s “Presumed Sale” tactic.
It all makes so much sense! Of course, there is the assumption that you are looking for a sexual encounter, and have either established a relationship or don’t care for one.
Finding a mate, developing a long term companionship, this, I think start and proceed where alcohol is *not* served, and under optimum conditions for clear thinking. Because a partner relationship should be based on honor, and integrity, and respect, and compassion – and you gotta be thinking clearly, or you may miss the red flags. You want to pick a sofa, or a car, when in peak physical and mental condition. Why pick an intimate companion that you might get attached to, while under the influence of missed meals or alcohol?
Thanks for clearing that up, Scott!
Okay, so I’m totally boring, and I think that if you have to try to seduce someone with chocolate or alcohol, you’re missing the point.
The feelings should be there – and any other inducement but chemistry and relative privacy unnecessary…
Happy New Year 2009 to you Brad !
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Loving Annie,
Actually, I think the message is – Never make decisions on an empty stomach.
And I think the key word is “seduce”. If you want to partner with a life mate, you think about what you are doing, to get to know and respect and cherish your companion. Seduction is something the Casanova’s do, hooking up or booty calling or whatever.
There is a time to seduce, possibly, but I would beware of anyone that gets good at it.