Comments on: When is it too bad to stay? http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/ Dating, marriage, divorce, family -- and what sex is and isn't. Sat, 13 Feb 2010 19:59:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Brad K http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/comment-page-1/#comment-8948 Brad K Wed, 23 Apr 2008 08:39:35 +0000 http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/#comment-8948 Hot Alpha Female, I agree about the friends being important to keep track of the health of relationships. About the chick dating the bad guy. She chose the guy for a reason - to rebel, a taste for danger, she liked his car/bike, running with his crowd, or living as he did with money, drugs, etc. Wouldn't it have been nice, if she had chosen good character instead? If she had started with character, there wouldn't have been anger issues, deceit, cheating, drugs, etc. Currently, guys do what they can to attract girls. For many, this is to buy a motorcycle, or drink and smoke, or any number of other ways to get a girl's attention. The more women that hold out for character - the more men will learn courtesy and live an ethical live. And, yes, I am suggesting living today as if the world were already a better place. For many people, it is. Paul Harvey occasionally wishes well for anniversary couples - over 70th anniversaries, that is. Most come from small towns, where people know each other's families and reputations before they meet. It may seem old fashioned and unexciting, but the risks are lower. And those involved are already living responsibly - not waiting to 'make a commitment' to stop trying to pick up dates. Hot Alpha Female, I agree about the friends being important to keep track of the health of relationships.

About the chick dating the bad guy. She chose the guy for a reason – to rebel, a taste for danger, she liked his car/bike, running with his crowd, or living as he did with money, drugs, etc. Wouldn’t it have been nice, if she had chosen good character instead?

If she had started with character, there wouldn’t have been anger issues, deceit, cheating, drugs, etc.

Currently, guys do what they can to attract girls. For many, this is to buy a motorcycle, or drink and smoke, or any number of other ways to get a girl’s attention. The more women that hold out for character – the more men will learn courtesy and live an ethical live. And, yes, I am suggesting living today as if the world were already a better place. For many people, it is. Paul Harvey occasionally wishes well for anniversary couples – over 70th anniversaries, that is. Most come from small towns, where people know each other’s families and reputations before they meet. It may seem old fashioned and unexciting, but the risks are lower. And those involved are already living responsibly – not waiting to ‘make a commitment’ to stop trying to pick up dates.

]]> By: Hot Alpha Female http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/comment-page-1/#comment-8940 Hot Alpha Female Wed, 23 Apr 2008 06:23:22 +0000 http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/#comment-8940 Brad, Interesting point that you bring up about not telling your friends everything. But at the end of the day your friends don't need to know everything. I think most of the time you can get the general gist of whether something is going to go uphill or downhill. The main point that i was trying to get across in that article was that sometimes you need someone on the outside looking IN .. to see something that you cannot see yourself. Its kind of like that situation .. where a chick is dating a really bad guy, who treats her badly, disrespects her and what not. N everybody around her can see that he treat her like crap except HER! Sometimes good friends .. can help take off those rose tinted glasses so you can finally see what has been in front of you this whole time. Hot Alpha Female Latest Post -- Talk is cheap and so are YOU http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com Brad,
Interesting point that you bring up about not telling your friends everything. But at the end of the day your friends don’t need to know everything.

I think most of the time you can get the general gist of whether something is going to go uphill or downhill.

The main point that i was trying to get across in that article was that sometimes you need someone on the outside looking IN .. to see something that you cannot see yourself.

Its kind of like that situation .. where a chick is dating a really bad guy, who treats her badly, disrespects her and what not. N everybody around her can see that he treat her like crap except HER!

Sometimes good friends .. can help take off those rose tinted glasses so you can finally see what has been in front of you this whole time.

Hot Alpha Female

Latest Post — Talk is cheap and so are YOU

http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com

]]> By: Brad K http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/comment-page-1/#comment-8925 Brad K Tue, 22 Apr 2008 15:13:40 +0000 http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/#comment-8925 Lisa, thanks for the kind words! Lisa, thanks for the kind words!

]]> By: Lisa http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/comment-page-1/#comment-8923 Lisa Tue, 22 Apr 2008 14:44:07 +0000 http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2008/04/22/when-is-it-too-bad-to-stay/#comment-8923 Very well said, especially the part about trust and respect which are foundational for any relationship and especially one with whom you choose to give your time, affection and vulnerability to. thanks for your input :) Very well said, especially the part about trust and respect which are foundational for any relationship and especially one with whom you choose to give your time, affection and vulnerability to. thanks for your input :)

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