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	<title>Comments on: About MEStrauss&#8217; Blogging Question 52: They Read My Diary</title>
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		<title>By: Liz Strauss</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz Strauss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 22:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brad,
You did misunderstand. What you heard was my feeling that folks are innocent until proven guilty. That is not the same as saying that I assume there is no blame on both sides. I want the facts before I judge. That's all. 

I can't assume what I don't know. My head and heart don't work that way.

Thank you for listening and understanding.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brad,<br />
You did misunderstand. What you heard was my feeling that folks are innocent until proven guilty. That is not the same as saying that I assume there is no blame on both sides. I want the facts before I judge. That&#8217;s all. </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t assume what I don&#8217;t know. My head and heart don&#8217;t work that way.</p>
<p>Thank you for listening and understanding.</p>
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		<title>By: Brad K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 14:25:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Liz,

I got that impression.  Several times you challenged my comment that the family might have been partially to blame.  You focused on that single aspect, seeming to deny me the position that there might be any fault at all, on the family's part.  I certainly got that message from the pattern of your responses.

My apologies if I misunderstood.

I agree that I don't know if the family was to blame for material in 'the earlier posts'.  But I suspect there is some blame, based on how the family reacted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liz,</p>
<p>I got that impression.  Several times you challenged my comment that the family might have been partially to blame.  You focused on that single aspect, seeming to deny me the position that there might be any fault at all, on the family&#8217;s part.  I certainly got that message from the pattern of your responses.</p>
<p>My apologies if I misunderstood.</p>
<p>I agree that I don&#8217;t know if the family was to blame for material in &#8216;the earlier posts&#8217;.  But I suspect there is some blame, based on how the family reacted.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz Strauss</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz Strauss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 06:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whoa!
&lt;i&gt; I am not sure why Liz wants to hold the family entirely blameless.&lt;/i&gt;

Where did I say that? 
Please don't tell the world what I think. That is NOT what I think.

That I don't want to jump to blame people I don't know doesn't put me at the other end of the spectrum. 

I don't know what they did or didn't do. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoa!<br />
<i> I am not sure why Liz wants to hold the family entirely blameless.</i></p>
<p>Where did I say that?<br />
Please don&#8217;t tell the world what I think. That is NOT what I think.</p>
<p>That I don&#8217;t want to jump to blame people I don&#8217;t know doesn&#8217;t put me at the other end of the spectrum. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what they did or didn&#8217;t do.</p>
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