http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2006/11/16/could-it-be-ignorance/ Dating, marriage, divorce, family -- and what sex is and isn't. Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:15:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2006/11/16/could-it-be-ignorance/comment-page-1/#comment-1219 NML Fri, 17 Nov 2006 13:09:30 +0000 http://www.itsaboutmakingbabies.com/2006/11/16/could-it-be-ignorance/#comment-1219 As always I enjoyed your post. I think you're absolutely right - some men don't really seem to know better although they probably do on a deeper level unless they really are very rough cut. The reason why I lay out these possibilities is because despite the obviousness of the signs, many women choose to ignore them. Even if a guy is behaving like this, unless he is totally comfortable with being this way, many will rationalise to themselves that they are treating a woman better than they are because they're not doing something them deem to be much worse. Social ettiquette is something that has become lost in transit. Maybe we should be having classes! Not you of course! As always I enjoyed your post. I think you’re absolutely right - some men don’t really seem to know better although they probably do on a deeper level unless they really are very rough cut. The reason why I lay out these possibilities is because despite the obviousness of the signs, many women choose to ignore them. Even if a guy is behaving like this, unless he is totally comfortable with being this way, many will rationalise to themselves that they are treating a woman better than they are because they’re not doing something them deem to be much worse. Social ettiquette is something that has become lost in transit. Maybe we should be having classes! Not you of course!

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