It’s About Making Babies!

Do you? Do you check every female you notice, day in and day out, assess the size and shape of her breasts, look to see if a nipple is peeking out, or is identifiable through the fabric of the lady’s blouse?

Some women throw on a shirt, grab a bucket, and head for the barn. They are more worried about slipping in muck and mud that getting their … form … appreciated.

There are those that strip for a living. They know that working the crowd within limits of the law means concealing, gradually intimating exposure, flashing, then displaying their chest and those mammary glands we call breasts. Or call by other names from pet names to vulgar references.

What worries me are the 10 year old school girls, the 20 year old college girls, and the 40 year old models and actresses. They *want* you to look at their chest and admire what you see. All too many feel their worth as adults depends on what develops.

Some guys fall for fashion, the ‘Playboy Philosophy’, and other misguided social drives, and look to see which girl or woman has the biggest breasts, the pointiest nipples, the most skin of breast and chest (’cleavage’ or ‘decolletage’ for Godess’ sake!) exposed. And women think that the bigger their chest, the more desirable they are and they should expect men to pamper them.

It works. For every girl that considers her chest a social and personal asset (beyond feeding their children from birth to age three or four), there are guys that figure having a picturesque babe on their arm improves their social and personal worth.

So do you look? Do you look to see the size and shape of the breasts, or do you look to see what the lady thinks of herself — whether she presents her breasts as enticements to sexual intimacy. Many women in the business place (except some ‘trophy’ receptionists) find that dressing in non-provocative fashion helps them with getting their work done, and getting fair evaluations of the work they do. As those of us that have practiced social recreational (non-sexual) nudity found, the smile is the feature you should look for first. If I don’t get a smile, the rest won’t matter, anyway.

For the ladies out there — please, for me — experiment. I truly prefer a lady without makeup, without a ’shaping’ garment of any kind, simple cotton underwear and sox, and workday clothes. The scent I use daily is Johnsons’s Baby Powder (Corn Starch). Don’t try to distract me from your personality. If I fall for your perfume, I will be likely to consider other women with perfume, that scent or another. If I fall for a provacative view of flesh, I will likely also be distracted by other displays of flesh. If you let me see your potential and home-partner and co-parent, I will be focused on home and baby — and may well stay that way the rest of my life.

If you think technology can mess up a community — from SPAM to pornography to computerized self-service checkouts at Wal-Mart — consider that inappropriate technology in your own life may also be destructive. Watch how you use the ‘miracle’ bra, perfume, provacative clothes, and sexually dependent view of relationships. Think more of exploring your own interests, dressing to fit your own needs so that others comfortable with that type of life can identify you. And remember — sexual provocation is critical to find a mate to make a baby. Any skills, practice, talents in that are that you possess become a threat to the rest of your life on the night you marry or make a baby.

Do you look?

Brad K.